how to show her you are interested?

[tlithay]

Hey everyone!

Here is the scoop. I was in class with this girl that I am kind of into. We see each other out a decent amount at the bars and we talk and things usually go quite well.

I want things to go further, however I am not exactly sure how to do that.

What exactly do I tell her or do when I see her out to show her I am interested in her? Ask her to dance maybe? I don't know. Any help is much appreciated.

Thanks,
Tim

[ConniptionFit]

Learn to flirt and escalate closeness and physical contact.

[tlithay]

Care to elaborate? How would I go about doing that?

[Boisdevie]

Ask her out. Do you need a diagram or some wikipedia article on how to do this?

[tlithay]

I guess I'm not being clear with what I am asking.
I'm already out with her at a bar. What do I say to her in order to get her aroused?

[ConniptionFit]

I guess I'm not being clear with what I am asking.
I'm already out with her at a bar. What do I say to her in order to get her aroused?

You joke around with her in a flirtatious manner. You "invade" her space and touch her as you are doing this. You do this more and more as the evening progresses, eventually giving her a kiss.

And, yes, dancing is called for in the mix also.

[jb1111983]

Compliment her, try to make her laugh, look into her eyes, tell her you enjoy her company, ask her questions about her, touch her every now and then, and if you feel it's going good go for the kiss.

[ConniptionFit]

Compliment her, try to make her laugh, look into her eyes, tell her you enjoy her company, ask her questions about her, touch her every now and then, and if you feel it's going good go for the kiss.

This is good, but you have to be flirtatious and fun when you do this because there is the seductive way of doing these things, but there is also the boring and turn-off way to do them.

[98db]

Put her hand on your crotch. That is my killer move.