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Thread: Prude/tomboy best friend may like me but not sure?

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    Prude/tomboy best friend may like me but not sure?

    So there's this girl, my best friend, an English girl, who is, of course, very close to me. She was the first one to actually see me for who I was and helped me develop my social skills from an awkward social reject into a quite a popular person. And I fell in love with her, but not for that reason. To cut to the chase, she and I grew so close even after I awkwardly asked her out two years ago. She's completely comfortable around me and shows so many of indicators of interest, like endless conversations and incessant tease-flirting (punching/hitting playfully, etc just all the time) and gets jealous of me when I'm not giving attention to her and, although we've fought multiple times, she's stayed with mebthrough the worst "****ing bitch" moments and such. She told me the other day that "when [I'm] happy, [she's] happy, when [I'm] sad, [she's] sad," moody and moody, so on. We've shared a lot of intimate conversations and she's tried to make me jealous with guys for my reaction alone. Yet she thinks she doesn't like me (oh and I forgot to say she's never been in a relationship before, the tomboy and prude things were already said) and seems to show a different thing. She has a huge personal bubble and I don't know how to burst the goddamn thing.

    Now, granted, I'm not the best at describing something you'd have to be there to see to fully understand, since not all of this shows all or the facets of attraction. I ask for any advice on how to handle a non-sexual (if prude is too rude a word) and how to move on from here, without moving on to another girl. I'm not that giddy to get a girlfriend.

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    She's not into you. Learn to go after girls who are into you.

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    Ohp, oh well. Thanks mate!

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    Cut her off completely. Tell her friendship isn't enough anymore, so it's time to part ways for good if she doesn't feel the same way.

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    Well, I tried to be a champ and tell her I was going to go play some games (that usually pisses her off but this time I was quite serious, Monster Hunter Tri in the background here) and she goes to say she's going to ask out our mutual friend, Harry. Well, come to find out she sends me the screenshot of her iPhone texts and I go through the nervous bodily reactions (increased heart rate, ice-cold breath, etc) because I wouldn't be anywhere near over her yet, and then she reveals it was all a joke by changing the name of her other friend to the boy's name and then asking her out, and all of this because I was trying to go and play something and not talk to her. What.

    GODDAMN WOMEN

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    Leave her don't let these women control your life.. Just don't lose hope.

    a thanks would be nice

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