Not getting many women
Some years ago I decided to study at night on a college (informatic engeneering), I work by day full-time and much of my time is used to rest a little and to work on some projects, so I am unable to do anything else, let alone go out or meet new people. Ussually I only get the sunday's off.
The fact is I don't get many girls to date with, in fact I think I just went out a few times in the last 3 years, and got nothing.
I consider myself mild attractive, but when I call a female friend to go out I ussually get the 'cold treatment', no response, or some lame excuse. But most of the times is no response at all.
But when I'm with them in a group of common friends I get the feeling they try to attract my attention sublty. And most of the times I'm right, but nothing goes from there on.
I have no trouble having a conversation with them, but I'm not much talkative.
I find it very frustrating and some of them I really tried to get something (not sex).
Last time I went to the cinema with old friends, one of my female friend tried to get my attention on the room by sitting at my side with her legs crossed pointing at me and subtly lifting her skirt for me to take a good look on her legs. I felt a bit odd, as she is very friendly and I tried not to look much or do anything for fear of ruining our long friendship. Also I could expect that from any other girl, but not from her. Was just teasing me? Last time I met her she had a boyfriend, but not nowadays.
It seems I can't mantain female interested, only brief attraction.
What you ladies think about this?
Thanks.
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