Hello Everyone,
My name is Michael Khoun and I am seeking advice on my current situation.
A little bit about myself- I am a Marine, very goal oriented, going to college, I have a nice car, I have a nice physique meaning I work out, I believe I am good looking, respectful and very nice and I have my life planned.
About her - Her parents died, been treated like shit all her life, by multiple guys, and doesn't keep really get along with alot of her family members. She dropped out of school for a guy, and she does have a disability where she cant pronounce words properly but IDK I like her anyways.
My situation is I am a nice guy and shes a nice girl, she has been treated like dirt for almost her entire life, so she says and she decided she wanted to meet me because I am cute, and the first time we actually talked she said that there could be a connection, that I like you because I can see you have a good personality in your eyes. She wants to takes things slow because of her last relationship and how long it lasted. She also got treated like shit.
What I dont understand is how she cant accept me for who I am when I have accepted her for everything she is. Shes not used to me being too nice. She said shes trying to get used to it but I feel like because I am nice I am am turning her off.
She keeps playing with my head because I really want this girl. I ask her why she keeps talking to me if she does not like me being nice, she says because I am sweet. I don't know why I like girls like her, keep me chasing. Is it the adrenaline rush or the thrill of chasing her? She is nice to me but have a opposite personality.
Shes changing me alot, and if she wants me to be more controlling I might be because I'm sick and tired of being the nice guy and getting heart broken. Is she stupid for wanting to be treated like shit? am I stupid for chasing after her? Why hasnt she left me yet?