Hello,
I'm kind of in doubt knowing whether a girl is kind of into me or not. It's exams at Uni at the moment, and I always study in the library. Since a week or 2, this very pretty girl often sat next to me (we have tables per 2). At first, it looked like coincidence, because when she arrived, most places in this particular room of the library were already taken. But even on days where only 10 of the 40 places were taken, she chose the seat next to me. I kind of thought that maybe she was a bit interested in me, so I tried talking to her. Due to my persistent shyness, the only things I was able to ask were "would you mind if I opened the window" and things like that. And her responses were never really conversation-starters as well..
I also tried to see if there was any body language pointing to her possible interest in me, but she seemed kind of distant. She hardly ever looked at me and was staring out of the window quite often. But when something happened like a person tripping over a trash-can, she'd giggle a few seconds after me, while looking at me. Now, I can see that there still isn't any proof of my theory.
But, a few days ago, I was already seated when her friend arrived. She took a seat a few tables further, but when she noticed me (I'm 100% sure about this) she got up again and moved to the table behind me. A few minutes later the girl I like arrived and her friend said "You go sit there", and then she sat next to me. And it's not like I imagined it, because a friend of mine, sitting a few tables away, had heard this too and he sent me a text immediately. Also, whenever I pass her in the hallway, she looks up for a split second, and then looks at the floor. And when her friend passes me, she smiles very hard at me.
But still, I'm not sure what to think of this. As I've already said, I'm very shy when I first talk to a girl I like, so I kind of want to be sure that I'm not imagining things here. Tomorrow is my last day of studying, so IF she's there, and IF she sits next to me, I will have to do something, at least talk to her. It's kind of sucking up all my energy for studying, it's really controlling my thoughts.
If I don't see her tomorrow, and I don't see her in a bar anymore after exams, would it be acceptable to add her on facebook (without having actually talked to her in real life), or is this really a no-go?
Thanks in advance!