I was seeing a guy a couple of months back. I really liked him and felt like it could have gotten more serious.. After seeing each other alot through the week and it had been a few week i slept with him. It was great sex but i felt it could have been too soon and i kind of regretted it.
It still went on for a few more weeks and i felt like we got alot more closer and were having more fun. He seemed pretty serious, he introduced me to his family, his friends. Asked me out all the time and always initiated contact. I thought everything was good, until he went away one weekend camping with his friends. I heard from him while he was away which i didnt expect. Everything just seemed okay.
He came back on the sunday. He didnt ask me to meet him so i just left it. Then he said he felt like there was something we needed to talk about as we didnt speak for 2 days.
He said he felt like he was doing all the work with us, which i could admit, i didnt want to come on too strong so i held back a little. After we had spoke i felt we were okay again, so i decided to initiate calling him and asking him out. He said he wasnt sure what he was doing and would let me know. lol
That was it for me, i felt like this early on and this much mis-communication wasnt good so i stopped calling and so did he. I was very hurt by it..
Fast forward 2 months, i am unavailable and he decides to start texting me. I ignore him for the most part, until one night i saw him out. I was just leaving but i said a quick hello and left and he text me right away telling me how i beautiful i looked.
He then tells me he is going away to work for 3 weeks but would really like to speak to me when he is back home. That isnt yet, but he has been texting me while he is away asking if he can see me when he is home again.
I just said im not sure.
First off, i dont understand what happened to us that he went cold on me with no explanation. Now he wants to see me again? What could be the reason for this? I am thinking for the sex.. Which i will not allow, i i dont even know if i want to talk to him in person again.. But i wish i could get whats going on in his head.
Can any guys please try give me some insight on this ? Thankyou!