Need your help!

[Koury]

Hi there,

I'm new to this whole forum and wanted to ask a question that is actually killing me sometime now!

Well a few months ago I fell in love with a girl who's 5 years older than me, I have no problems with age gap neither does she.the thing that actually attracts me even more towards her is that looking into her eyes or seeing her smile drives me crazy and gives me additional peace and happiness...

She doubted it was real love but I'm sure staring into her eyes or her smile kills me so that could not be temptation or lust. Two days ago I finally met her and we talked a bit about ourselves but unfortunately I forgot or didn't have enough power to tell her how much I love her and i'd do whatever i can to reach her!!

Any advices would be kindly appreciated as to how can i describe my feeling to her...?

Thanks in advance...

[devonbrown]

Umm, you fell in love with a woman that you only MET two days ago?
I don't think that you are in love with her. I think you feel things and see potential for something and are definitely infatuated, but for love to develop there has to be a real-time combination of attraction and interest.
I can understand why she would doubt you now because I don't think you really know what it is you are feeling right now. And because of that, it is probably good you didn't blurt out your undying love to her. She probably would have run for the hills.
My advice - relax, take it slow, and just enjoy the time you get to interact with her. Maybe it will work and maybe it won't. Just recognize that whatever happens will be what is best.

Good luck.

[Koury]

No I've met her for about 2.5 months now but this was the first time I personally met her... Before we used to go out with our sisters or friends!

Anyways many thanks for your time and reply...