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Thread: Another girl. Another rejection.

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    Another girl. Another rejection.

    Oh well ...

    At least it reached the 4-date stage.

    Again, no real reason other than it 'just wasn't working' ... strange, seeing as she was already making plans for this weekend.

    My confidence is starting to get a little frayed.
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    You win some, but you lose most. 4 dates it a better time to lose it than 40 dates. Pick up, go for a jog, and move on.

    Easier said than done.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    The important thing is did you learn anything from the encounter to help you improve your game.
    I look at it this way. Its like baseball you are expected to miss alot of hits until you start getting good.
    I want a girl who likes to talk. ......I just dont know what to say sometimes and would rather just listen.

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    There are more of them than there are of us. Keep plugging away.

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    You might just be looking in the wrong places.
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    There are more of them than there are of us. Keep plugging away.
    Ha Ha Thats a good one! I like it.
    I want a girl who likes to talk. ......I just dont know what to say sometimes and would rather just listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    There are more of them than there are of us. Keep plugging away.
    There are? Hmmm, not noticed that over here ...

    Quote Originally Posted by Henry123 View Post
    The important thing is did you learn anything from the encounter to help you improve your game.
    I learnt nothing, as I never get any kind of feedback.

    And as for improving my game? I'm not playing a game, just being myself, so it's for the best really as I'm awesome, and it's her loss ... or something like that.
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    You'll never get feedback or "reasons", don't expect any. You have to try to analyse it yourself, I suppose. Try to think if you did anything to scare her off, or why else she might have lost interest (or failed to become interested)

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    oh time to look forward to next one then

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    Quote Originally Posted by oneandonly View Post
    oh time to look forward to next one then
    Hmm ... might give it a rest for while.

    Dating is expensive and I want to go on holiday.
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    Quote Originally Posted by maxmax View Post
    There are? Hmmm, not noticed that over here ...



    I learnt nothing, as I never get any kind of feedback.

    And as for improving my game? I'm not playing a game, just being myself, so it's for the best really as I'm awesome, and it's her loss ... or something like that.
    Yep, about 51% of the population anywhere in the world is female. XX chromosome sperm swim slightly faster than XY chromosome sperm.

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    And it also means that instead of being good before the weekend, I can now go and stuff my face with pizza!
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    Two quick things I wanted to mention:

    1) Every relationship fails until we find the one that doesn't. It is just a matter of patience in finding the one that doesn't fail.

    2) I like your thoughts about taking time to do things for yourself. Concentrate on the things that make you happy and chances are you will fall into a romantic relationship with someone who shares your interests.

    Good luck.
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    The funny thing is, just a couple of days ago I posted on another thread that I didn't think it was going to go anywhere due to a number things I was unsure about ...

    I guess I was just annoyed at her being the one to end it ... and by text, because she is not 'good with words'.

    Moving on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by maxmax View Post
    The funny thing is, just a couple of days ago I posted on another thread that I didn't think it was going to go anywhere due to a number things I was unsure about ...

    I guess I was just annoyed at her being the one to end it ... and by text, because she is not 'good with words'.

    Moving on.
    Attaboy!!!

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