Okay so my previous post was about me and my ex and i got mixed advice but the most common one was that i needed to not contact him and ignore him and hopefully thinking he had lost me would push him and motivate him to get out of this rut, well i have done that and i have ignored a few texts from him, i just dont know how long to keep this up, its obvious that is working because his last text was begging me to answer him but i dont wanna push it too far ya know? i just dont know when to let up a little and at least respond (when i do respond im still going to keep the mind set of he lost me and not try and get him back or anything cuz he has to work for me) sooo help? ahahah