what do i do here.. play or not play?

[DarkHelmet82]

I play in a weekly poker tournament.. i introduced my ex to the game. Now i notcied her new down syndrome boyfriend is now friends with the dude that runs the game. THe last thing i need is to show up and see them together... BUT i dont want to have to stop going because of that.......any advice? thanks

I can take extra medicine i guess but then ill just look like a crackhead

[tremolo]

I think you should find a new poker group

[DarkHelmet82]

I think you should find a new poker group

problem is there arent any in the area really... at least that I can find... this sucks.

[steviej]

Agreed. After what you've been through this isn't what you need. If you think that they are going to attend, find another one.

[VincenzoG91]

Or start your own poker group.

[steviej]

How friendly are you with the guy that runs the group?

[DarkHelmet82]

How friendly are you with the guy that runs the group?

hes a nice guy, im friendly with him I would say yeah... why?

[smackie9]

Suck it up princess lol. When I worked at a night club, there were nights when at least 3 of my exes were there partying....I could of care less what they were doing as long as they didn't talk to me.

[DarkHelmet82]

Suck it up princess lol. When I worked at a night club, there were nights when at least 3 of my exes were there partying....I could of care less what they were doing as long as they didn't talk to me.

you handle stuff better than I do.. i freak out when i get a hangnail.. haha just kidding.. but maybe your right.. Why should i have to change my life and habits because of her?

[tremolo]

Why should i have to change my life and habits because of her?

Because you know what it will do to you if you see her there with someone else. It's unfair, but it's the sad fact of the matter. There are places I love that I won't go in my city anymore because I'm afraid my ex will be there, and I don't know how I could cope with seeing him - particularly if he were there on a date, or there flirting with other women.

[DarkHelmet82]

Yeah i know.. this sucks.. this was my one TRUE outlet and now she took it away from me.. shes like satan.. feeding on my soul lol

[steviej]

hes a nice guy, im friendly with him I would say yeah... why?

Does he know the situation with you and this girl? If so, see if he'd not invite this guy along.

Or if you can't ask that, ask him to tell you if this guy will be going. If he asks why and you explain the situation he'll at the least give you a heads up if the guy is coming, or hopefully empathise and not ask him along.

[DarkHelmet82]

Does he know the situation with you and this girl? If so, see if he'd not invite this guy along.

Or if you can't ask that, ask him to tell you if this guy will be going. If he asks why and you explain the situation he'll at the least give you a heads up if the guy is coming, or hopefully empathise and not ask him along.

good point.. i can give it a shot... sometimes people just show up though so its hard to control.. but yeah cant hurt to ask

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Is this a real poker game? Like an illegal one for money?

If it is, just don't let it affect your play, and honestly you can try telling her she's not welcome. Or just have your friends rob them when they leave...they can't tell anyone.

Or **** it, just have you friends rob the whole goddamn game, then you can quit. Poker games get robbed all the time and no one says shit.

[tremolo]

Yeah, you could tell her that you'd appreciate it if she's not come to the tournament anymore. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. It was your thing to begin with, not hers.