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    Could it be that...

    So as some already know, I blocked my ex on facebook. But I recently used my sister's facebook, they are still friends on fb, to glance at her page. And this is what I read. I don't know but for some reason it makes me feel good. Could it be that the grass is not greener on the other side after all? Well I don't want to over thing this. It just makes me smile. I know it won't change anything as well. So this is what she wrote. Don't judge me though. I'm feeling better as each day passes by.

    1st Post:
    Got my dreams, got my life, got my love
    Got my friends, got the sunshine above
    Why am I making this hard on myself
    When there’s so many beautiful reasons I have to be happy

    2nd Post:
    I grew tired of the same, then one night
    Packed my things, told the one I love
    I’ll be back one day

    The second post makes more sense to me. But again don't want to thing too much about what that could mean. Could not even be related to us.

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    Those are song lyrics. Doesn't mean anything. Well I wouldn't put too much stock in them.

    Look up the songs on Google and give them a listen. After my ex broke it off with me she sent me a bunch of music she had been listening to and all of the lyrics spelled out that her love had moved on. I was very sad to listen to these songs but when I'd say I hope you really don't feel that way, she'd reply back that it was just a song she liked...
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    Oh don't torture yourself on trying to figure out lyrics she posts. My ex does the same thing posting songs that fit her "mood" aka intentionally or not getting every song that will hit every one of my trigger points. You'll go insane

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    How about this..... stop looking, stop snooping, stop asking, stop wondering, stop analyzing, stop stop stop!! stop torturing yourself....it's over, move on!

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    Love is a heavenly feeling. That is why we usually love the one whom we get hurt mostly. You really [URL="http://www.myboyisanidiot.com"]love your ex[/URL] yet and this is the feeling showing your love dear. I feel the way you feel. My wish you will get together soon and it will be forever. You are made for each other. He says how caring he is for you. And you are getting the same what you expected.

    You never can apart and so so enjoy the best. :-)
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    means nothing.. my ex put "grateful I have my close friends and family to cheer me up." she put that after she told me she still liked me but wasnt ready yet. Now shes dating someone a week later.

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    Haha like I said. I don't really care about what those words mean. It just made me feel good; well until everyone here dished me LMAO. I didn't even bother analyzing what it could mean. And that's what is amazing too; I can feel that I'm moving on. I just hate them mornings. Before words like that would make me go crazy. But it's not working this time. :-)
    I know they are lyrics. The second post even goes with the video of the song. So....I just think whatever it's you don't post lyrics just like that. I have done it too and it expressed my thoughts of the moment. The lyric was speaking for me.The second post made more sense to me because she said those words to me once when I was still trying to get her back. Not really like that but it certainly resonates like it. lol

    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    How about this..... stop looking, stop snooping, stop asking, stop wondering, stop analyzing, stop stop stop!! stop torturing yourself....it's over, move on!
    I know, I know. It was just a sneak peek. I haven't log on her fb since the day I promised I wasn't going to do it again. Haha! if that counts at all.

    PS: As usual, I'm having an awesome day, but I'm not looking forward for tomorrow morning. Eww! I always feel like crap when I wake up. But the time of recovery it's getting smaller with days.
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    if it makes you feel better, my ex made a second profile on facebook and entered into a relationship on there.

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    Honestly I think it would have been better if mine had done that. I felt she was trying to push it in my face. She claims she thought it would help me get over her faster. :rolleyes:

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    i dont see how that could be better.. she decpetivly did it after a week earlier saying she wasnt ready to date anyone but still had feelings for me. But she will get hers.. Karma is a bitch

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 View Post
    if it makes you feel better, my ex made a second profile on facebook and entered into a relationship on there.
    Ha! you are lucky she even made another facebook. Mine didn't even hide. She actually accepted the relationship status from the new boy after I saw them together for the first time and laughed lol. It was just funny to me to see them for some reason. What she did was to come back in the apartment and make the relationship official. How do I know? Well she confessed to me after that. She said when I laughed it pissed her off and she went on to accept the request and that it was seating in her inbox for couple days. Why did she tell me this? I don't know and I don't care.

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    I remember my girl put this up on her facebook...

    "Ordinary things can be made extraordinary, simply by doing them with the right people."

    ... then she dropped me a couple of days later. It drove me insane trying to figure out if they were connected in any way, especially since she put up other quotes before.... hinting at her "romantic excitement" towards someone (and confessed they were all about me). So maybe this was towards also, or maybe it was just the next random daily quote she picked for her status. Regardless, there's no point in analyzing it.... she's gone and that's really the only thing that you need to recognize.

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    Quote Originally Posted by confusius View Post
    So as some already know, I blocked my ex on facebook. But I recently used my sister's facebook, they are still friends on fb, to glance at her page. And this is what I read. I don't know but for some reason it makes me feel good. Could it be that the grass is not greener on the other side after all? Well I don't want to over thing this. It just makes me smile. I know it won't change anything as well. So this is what she wrote. Don't judge me though. I'm feeling better as each day passes by.

    1st Post:
    Got my dreams, got my life, got my love
    Got my friends, got the sunshine above
    Why am I making this hard on myself
    When there’s so many beautiful reasons I have to be happy

    2nd Post:
    I grew tired of the same, then one night
    Packed my things, told the one I love
    I’ll be back one day

    The second post makes more sense to me. But again don't want to thing too much about what that could mean. Could not even be related to us.
    You blocked her on facebook for a reason, So don't go snooping around on it through someone elses profile.

    Trust me. You will get hurt when you see something you don't want to see.

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    Quote Originally Posted by McRich01 View Post
    You blocked her on facebook for a reason, So don't go snooping around on it through someone elses profile.

    Trust me. You will get hurt when you see something you don't want to see.
    Nah.... sometimes the best way to move on is finding out your worst fears came true. If it turns out she gets together with another guy or something, It hurts like hell when you finally find out but you won't have to wonder anymore, and can start moving forward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by flynhayn View Post
    Nah.... sometimes the best way to move on is finding out your worst fears came true. If it turns out she gets together with another guy or something, It hurts like hell when you finally find out but you won't have to wonder anymore, and can start moving forward.
    True mate, Very true.

    I did this with mine at first, And well, Although she isn't actually with anyone, She put up a picture with herself and some other 'Boy' ! Although it hurt me at first, Then i heard about rumors that she had got into bed with some boy, Which made sense with the status she was posting, And well, I developed nothing but hatred towards her, Which has helped me get over her so much

    But don't play with fire and expect not to get burnt.

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