Confused

[RichardPee]

Hey. Well To start off me and my girl has been going out for a while. I lost my virginity to her but she didn't. She lost it to somebody else. and this always comes to my head and annoys me a lot. I always imagine us having kids but since she lost it to somebody else and loved him as well before. i cant accept that and if we ever have kids i don't want her to lie and tell them i was her first love and she lost it to me. What should i do?

[jay121]

Hello Richard.

Losing your virginity to someone your care about can open up a lot of emotions, hell losing your virginity to someone you thought you never cared about can be a powerful thing too. Some times the emotions involved can make your head do things that it wouldn't normally do. (some may say I was lucky, I lost it to some random girl I never knew, no complications) May I ask what type of relation ship you had with this person before you slept together?

First loves are always a bit messy, well for most people at least, but the thing is that she is with you now and has moved on from her past. Don't over think it in your head too much it will drive you mad. Im sure if you talk to her everything can be sorted out. I understand though, sometimes you just want to type things out, ask people questions to clear your head.

Good luck!

[RichardPee]

Well, before i lost it to her we were together for 2 months. Are relationship is almost perfect but its always this thing that always gets me mad. I do talk to her about it but I'm very ignorant. It pisses me off and drives me crazy.