is it important to interact with girls as much as possible?

[mrund3rd09]

I'm still looking for my first relationship. I realize that the reason I rarely find a girl I'm attracted to is because I never really actively communicate with girls, and I never try to make friends with them. Do I need to change this mindset? Should I try to talk to and befriend every girl that comes my way?

[wolfie91]

Sure. It can't hurt to be more social, and you may find that your attraction to someone develops over time. Knowing them a little deeper before jumping right in doesn't hurt, either.

[mrund3rd09]

I've never known whether it's better to get to know someone for a while before asking her out, or to avoid the friend zone from the start. Is one path necessarily better than the other?

[Ross MwcFan]

It seems most relationships started as friendships at first.

Yeah, you need to get out there more and put yourslef around more women to give yourself a better chance.

[devonbrown]

The whole thing boils down to confidence and communication. The more people in general that you talk to, the more confident you will be when you want to communicate with someone you want to date.

Good luck.