Heart vs Head

[pisces25]

Which do you generally follow more when you are in a head vs heart situation?

[Horseyguy]

Heart ... and it always leads to trouble

Head and it always seems to lead to pain

I can't seem to win either way to be honest

[pisces25]

Couldn't agree more. I act on my emotions (like most women!) problem is those emotions are consantly changing. So I decide to use my head and then don't feel quite satisfied with the result that gives either.

[KelE]

I guess both would be better. It's hard though...

[Horseyguy]

Problem I have is if I think with my heart it ****s my head up and if I think with my head it ****s my heart up

Next time I'm going to think with my arse and hopefully my head and heart will be well out of it

[DannyH]

I always try to keep a balance seems easier to put things in to view.

[pisces25]

LOL Horseyguy. I might try that too.

[Wakeup]

IMO: In the end, when the dust has settled using the head ... that is whats best.

Often, using either is painful, but it's much easier to recover from if you've logiced it out rather than followed blindly with the heart. At least that's the way it seems from reading the painful (often codependent) experiences of others on these boards.

[DannyH]

Heart gives you a general direction the head gives you the tools to get there safetly

[HeartIsAching]

If heart and head are in conflict...

Oh hell, I can't really say, as it depends on the situation. When heart and head are in harmony, you're gold.

[DarkHelmet82]

listen to your GUT.. never ever ever fails me

[DannyH]

listen to your GUT.. never ever ever fails me

I would be living at arby's if I did that. rofl

[DarkHelmet82]

I would be living at arby's if I did that. rofl

hahaha... but in all seriousness its almost like a sixth sense that I have.. my gut is telling me that my ex is going to break up with her current down syndrome boyfriend. I hope she tries to contact me.. ill tell her to **** off. Give it two weeks.

[DannyH]

hahaha... but in all seriousness its almost like a sixth sense that I have.. my gut is telling me that my ex is going to break up with her current down syndrome boyfriend. I hope she tries to contact me.. ill tell her to **** off. Give it two weeks.

Heh I was gonna peg an ncis joke but food jokes work better. I know what you mean though but I don't call it my gut anymore because of the way I look at people

[DarkHelmet82]

Heh I was gonna peg an ncis joke but food jokes work better. I know what you mean though but I don't call it my gut anymore because of the way I look at people

i wouldnt have gotten it.. i dont watch ncis... what do you mean "the way i look at people"