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[LeagueLegend]

Well I got dumped by my gf yesterday because she thought that me and her best friend were getting a little too close, we just talked a lot and also because we had an argument a little before and were having a break for a few days.

But anyways I spoke to her today and said that I wanted her back and said. Well...Show me how you can make it up then. If I mean that much.

So how can I make it up too her? Any advice?

[ka_xx]

Well, it's hard to say without knowing more details about your relationship..but I might as well give you some advice. First of all, you need to be able to not have the same relationship with her best friend, or else whatever you do to make up for it will just serve as a short term fix. If you can honestly make that commitment, then maybe you can do something very sweet to show her how much you care. Maybe you can bring her flowers to her house, or anything very sweet like that. But im curious to know what the arguement was about a few days before. Why dont you let me know then i can help you more!

[Cybog]

lol, it's sad that people are too wishy washy and pansy in their advice. We need more people around here to tell people how the real world works, and stop telling these kids how to fit their diapers.

Listen LeagueLegend, I don't care how much you think this chick is "The One" - She isn't. Any broad that dumps you for no other reason than you having an argument or for talking too much to her friend, is a scummy-ass ho.

Newsflash: There are going to be arguments in "Real Life Grown Up" relationships. You are going to talk to other women in your life. There is none of this "Show me how you can make it up to me" bullshit in the real world. This girl needs a reality check in life, and needs to drink a tall glass of "Grow the **** up."

Seriously. Find a new girlfriend. You and this one are headed straight downhill, regardless of the outcome of this pathetic little scenerio. Don't believe me? That's fine. Just do me a favor and email me in a few months when it is over. Because it will be.

[stardust]

i understand both of their opinions. Cybog its all very well sayin dump the ass ho or woteva but i dunno in real life when ur with someone it just doesnt work like that. I admit that was a very lame reason for ur girlfriend to break up with you. Personally that would worry me abit. Your girlfriend thinking that u and her mate were getting too close shows that either ur girlfriend is the jealous type, insecure or that she doesnt trust you fully. If you are prepared to still be with her then just be yourself. I dont believe that youve really done anything wrong to be honest!! so there is no need to make it up to her. she should be apoligising to u for dumping you!! anyway strange things happen in relationships so if ur prepared to let this little slip slide and still wanna be with her then just be you, show her you care and spend time together, Perhaps assure her that she needs to relax abit and trust you. hope u sort it woteva u decide!

[joe schmoe]

lol, it's sad that people are too wishy washy and pansy in their advice. We need more people around here to tell people how the real world works, and stop telling these kids how to fit their diapers.

Listen LeagueLegend, I don't care how much you think this chick is "The One" - She isn't. Any broad that dumps you for no other reason than you having an argument or for talking too much to her friend, is a scummy-ass ho.

Newsflash: There are going to be arguments in "Real Life Grown Up" relationships. You are going to talk to other women in your life. There is none of this "Show me how you can make it up to me" bullshit in the real world. This girl needs a reality check in life, and needs to drink a tall glass of "Grow the **** up."

Seriously. Find a new girlfriend. You and this one are headed straight downhill, regardless of the outcome of this pathetic little scenerio. Don't believe me? That's fine. Just do me a favor and email me in a few months when it is over. Because it will be.

Harsh but true......... tell her her jealousy will forever eat at your relationship and if she can't control it then its finished.

[chelsee]

IMO, you should never give another girl more attention than the girl you are dating. that's just plain wrong! freinds or not. if you really like the girl she should be the one that your attention is focused on. She should be the one you have fun with. geez

[Cybog]

Cybog its all very well sayin dump the ass ho or woteva but i dunno in real life when ur with someone it just doesnt work like that.

First of all, I didn't say "Dump the ass ho" - They already broke up. I told him to find a new one and forget about this one.

Second of all, don't come here with your High School BS patting people on the back telling them that everything is going to be "Ok" and then talk to me about how "real life" works.

Unlike you, I have and already do live in the real world. I have either experienced or seen just about everything imaginable when it comes to relationships. I know how shit works.

And when it comes to kids in friggin High School getting bent out of shape because some idiot girl decides to tell them to prove themselves to them because of some whore-ish ego trip, he needs to learn early on that that kind of shit doesn't fly.

Maybe you are the kind of High School broad who thinks its "Ok" to put your men through trials and tribulations just to feed your pathetic insecuritites, but that doesn't mean the rest of the men in the world need to deal with it.