Please give me some feedback and advice. I've known this guy for nearly two years. Five months after I met him, I allowed him to live with me. He is now 60 and I am 52. We both do not look our real age, but the problem is, every now and then, I find evidence that he has been visiting these dating sites. BTW, we met on one. I assume he forgets to get rid of the history, and when I log on and check the history, I sometimes find what he has written in his AOL inbox. This is not the first time I have read letters written by him to other females. I had talked to him last year about it, and he told me it meant nothing, that it was just something to do whenever he gets bored. It keeps happening though. When we were having drinks last week outdoors, he told me....(and I was not the one who bought it up) that he may go on social sites, but that he only does it to see if he still "got it." I had asked him throughout our relationship if he loves me, and he stated yes. I thought he had stopped, but I keep seeing the letters, and I will not reveal to him I ever see them. Only once did I confront him last year. His love for me has been shown in some ways, but not in others. For instance, he takes care of the outdoor chores, cooks, does laundry, and isgenerous whenever he has money, yet, our sex life sucks. I do know that his drive is down. I consider myself to have great sex appeal, and am an attractive woman with a great personality, so I cannot figure out why he keeps writing letters to females, if he "truly" loves me. He moved with me, and left his job an hour and a half away due to stress with the commute, and not being treated right at the establishment. He has been searching (although not actively) in my hometown, but is also awaiting a lump sum social security check. He will probably be found eligible due to a diagnoses of bipolar. It isn't severe, and it is controlled quite well, but he has had depression issues. He seems cheerful for the most part, but this thing with the social network sites he goes on is troubling me. What do you think can be the problem. I want out if there is game. I have come too far, just lost my mom and dad, and I cannot take anymore heartache. He does not go anywhere, as he barely has any funds. If he did, I wonder if he would go off and meet someone. He has done so twice before, but went to re-hab to get clean from cocaine usage. He has not since stayed out, and swore to me he has never cheated on me. I don't know....I just do not know anymore. Thanks for your feedback and any advice you can offer.