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    Lonely in a relationship

    Is this normal?
    Im in a relationship with just abouts 6 years. Had its ups and downs.
    Im so lonely, I constantly seek approval from him and always do little things to try make him happy and just want to feel loved, he tells me he loves me all the time. I dont know what to do, Ive recently just felt so low and I feel invisible with my partner. My birthday came and went, not even a card, valentines the same, I didnt want a present but a card or something would have been nice. I dont feel good about myself, Ive lost my self confidence.

    Anybody been through this? Is it a phase?

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    Break up with him?

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    Im not sure if its me or him. I can feel myself gteting more and more depressed and it like he doesnt notice but then again maybe I should just tell him. I dont know, bit of a mess.

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    See a psychologist?
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    Buy a condo?

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    Ive made an appointment with one cerby, its next Tuesday

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mathias View Post
    Buy a condo?
    Wait, what?

    Quote Originally Posted by lollipops View Post
    Ive made an appointment with one cerby, its next Tuesday
    It will solve problems, or at least bring them to the surface. I think it will be the best thing you can do for yourself.
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    im seeing a psychologist.. its not magic and will take a while.. but it may help you... good luck

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