RE: GF wants a break but i don't...

[anon1234567]

Yesterday we had a good time even though she was upset in the beginning when we met up with each other but I eventually go thrugh to her and she put off the break that she wanted from me. Claiming that she's stressed out by everyone and has a bad attitude. Today, we chatted for a bit and we had a good conversation for a bit then she said out of the blue, "im not normal anymore.." Then I said "what do you mean" She said "iidk we're taking a break sorry goodnight love you!" I tried and tried to convince her again but she had her mind set.. she claimed she wouldn't leave me and that she loves me just needs space and time to think.. I tried to convince her again and she said It's not about you this time.. I've tried helping other people out now it's time for me to focus on myself for a little bit. Love you goodnight. I don't know what to do.. I'm so scared I don't want us to break apart.. I feel like she really is the one..

[richardwordoff]

Hard to say. On the surface it sounds like she is just having some problems to work on. However, what I would do is ask her how long of a break she is taking and if that means she is going to be seeing other people

[lahnnabell]

It looks worse for you the more you beg and plead. You're driving her further away by doing this. I know, I know you feel horrible, but you seriously need to look at why you're so obsessed with staying her. This is a co-dependent relationship and you're better off without this BS.