i'm a shadow of my lovers girlfriend

[roseycat]

im only 18 and he's 20 ..he's my classmate the first time i saw him i already liked him but he had his girlfriend. he and i became friends i dont have any intention being involved with him but we knew to each other that we like each other eventually we became friends and not knowing we became more than friends we knew the consequences and we tried to deny and overlook our feelings but we ended up trying to be together...he loves his girlfriend and theyre already 1 year..but he also loves me we are now 2 months but the friendship we had is deeper we had a lot of similarities my family knew that he is my boyfriend and he comes to my house m-w-f....of course we are secret lovers in school and they knew he dearly love his girlfriend but i've asked him too many times whether he wants me to leave but he says no but i like him too much....he shows the will but i don't have anyone else to ask about this matter..he always say "stay and maybe the wind from east goes to west should i hope for that?"


please answer me and give advice

[jb1111983]

Stay and maybe he'll break two hearts.
Btw you're helping him cheat on his gf. Good job!

[Warhawk]

What's gonna stop him from meeting another girl when he is with you?

[Mathias]

im only 18 and he's 20 ..he's my classmate the first time i saw him i already liked him but he had his girlfriend. he and i became friends i dont have any intention being involved with him but we knew to each other that we like each other eventually we became friends and not knowing we became more than friends we knew the consequences and we tried to deny and overlook our feelings but we ended up trying to be together...he loves his girlfriend and theyre already 1 year..but he also loves me we are now 2 months but the friendship we had is deeper we had a lot of similarities my family knew that he is my boyfriend and he comes to my house m-w-f....of course we are secret lovers in school and they knew he dearly love his girlfriend but i've asked him too many times whether he wants me to leave but he says no but i like him too much....he shows the will but i don't have anyone else to ask about this matter..he always say "stay and maybe the wind from east goes to west should i hope for that?"


please answer me and give advice

He's playing you. He's not even really good at it (east to west? Really?), but you're falling for it anyway.

[devonbrown]

How to cheat:

Step 1 - Get a significant other (A).
Step 2 - Find someone other (B) than your significant other who likes you.
Step 3 - Cheat on (A) with (B).
Step 4 - Continue as long as (B) doesn't mind and (A) doesn't find out.

roseycat, you are person (B) in the scenario above. Whether you like him or not, and whether he likes you or not, get some respect for yourself and realize that you deserve better than this. And his girlfriend deserves better than this. And he deserves none of this.