The woman I've been seeing is (i think) pulling away from me. And worse yet, I think she's drifting toward another guy.
Things were fine between us until back in April I asked her if I could join her and her girlfriend in the bedroom. (Yes, she's bi and she has a girlfriend also.) It's kinda been a downhill slide since then.
We got into it pretty good too when I told her another friend of hers was sending me topless pics of herself. Me and this friend of hers had been talking and flirting on facebook... then she just sent me the pics one day. I'm a guy, what do you expect. Of course I looked. I only told my girlfriend because I wanted to be honest and not hide it from her.
A while back... (and this was a long while back, before she was my girlfriend) she had a one night stand with this guy named A. Well, thats what we'll call him. His name is Aaron, but I want to make the A stand for asshole, that's just me though, lol.
A couple months ago she told me she ran into him at a friend's house. At the time I didn't think anything of it. I knew she slept with him a long time ago... but so what? She has a past just like I do.
Then he ends up on her facebook friends list. I friended him too, just because I wanted to look at his profile. I've seen the flirty little comments he makes to her on her wall. I've gritted my teeth and said nothing this whole time. She has flirted back a little. Then a couple weeks ago he commented on one of my status updates. And she responded to his comment. She didn't even address my update. And then the two of them have this flirtatious exchange back and forth on MY status update!!! I was livid... But I didn't say anything. I was thinking "Who the hell does this jerkoff think he is???
Then the other night I texted her at around midnight. She's been spending a lot of time at her friend Emily's place. And guess who is one of Emily's roomates... A, Emily and Emily's boyfriend all three live together. So I texted her at around midnight and asked her what she was up to. She said "Sitting around the fire." Now, her and Emily always have a camp fire going when she's over there. SO I knew right away she was at Emily's. I texted her "Just you and Em?" And she answered back, "No, Em went to bed, me and Aaron." I felt sick to my stomach. I didn't text her again that night.
The next day I asked her what time she made it home. She said she left Emily's place at around 6am. I asked her what she was doing all that time, and she said they just sat and talked. Seriously... How many guys are gonna sit by a camp fire for 6 hours and talk to some chick unless they are trying to get some??? She had an injured leg on Sat. It wasn't debilitating, but still causing her a lot of pain. I wonder if it wasn't for that if she would have slept with him.
SO, what do you all think? IS she pulling away? Is she cheating? What should I do?