Please help me girls :( :(

[RRRR9999]

I am in love with my collegue.We are close each other...
She had a boy friend who does nt care her and she wanted to forget him.
She came to know recently that I like her
Infact I told her in the chat....and asked her for lunch.

Finally after listening my nonsense she replied "I dont have any issues to come to lunch or dinner.Infact we are close to each other.But I really dont encourage the relation"

She said that my words,actions and behaviour sending her a wrong signal (relation ) and she said that she really dont encourage that.

Then I said we can be frnds...she said Sure...forget everything and just relax.

My que is "Can I get her or not...may not be now....but in future....pls suggest me wat shud I do"

:confused:

[maxmax]

She has made it quite clear she is not interested in anything more than a relationship.

Accept it.

If your approach is one of trying to win her over, the likelihood is that you willl scare her off completely and she wont want anything to do with you.

So, be yourself, be her friend, and look elsewhere for romance.