Closure

[Deeza07]

How do you move on and get closure?

I've gotten no answers for my questions from him, as we didn't have any problems between us. He wanted the space because of his problems with his divorce...makes it hard for me to accept when we were happy with each other.

[lahnnabell]

Closure sometimes doesn't come till much later. Frustrating, I know. He's afraid that contacting you now will result in a whole slew of mixed feelings, so really, he's doing you a service. Most of the time when separated couples talk to soon they end up rehashing the problems instead of finalizing the separation through understanding. How long has it been since you broke up?

He also probably just wasn't ready to move really on with you if he's still hung up on previous divorce issues.