Just wanted to say thank you for the advice on this forum. I decided follow the advice to be diect with the guy I was seeing since he was being all wishy washy instead of just waiting it out like normal. We had spent all weekend together (He stayed Thurs - Sunday) with all our friends and it was hot cold all weekend. His roomates were completely baffled at his behavior. So on Tues when we have movie night and his roomie said "lets get ready to go to your girls house and he told his roomate "f that sh!T" I just got fed up. (His roomie told me about it bc he was wondering what happened between the two of us.)

I texted him and basicly asked if something happend this weekend (we were all really drunk on Sat) or if he just was not into this. I basicly called him out via text and said if you don't want to see me have the balls to say so and that will be cool. He texted back "prob be good if we just chilled and hang out as friends for now...not cause of sat". So I said cool, just wish he would have said something instead of acting all weird and he said "I wasnt trying to be" and I said its all cool and he said "thanks its not that I don't want to chill i am just exhusted and going to bed early". I said thats ok, see you around. And left it at that.

I was a little sad bc I liked the guy, but he had to much going on in his life. Thanks though for the ones who said to just confront him and also the ones who said that there was prob to much going on. Glad to be clear now then months down the road when it would have hurt. I will prob see him a decent amount since we are all now a big group of friends (his roomie is over at my place like every day cause he is friends with my roomie) and we are all going tubing this weekend, bbq on sunday..movie night on tues. You get the pic. I think I can be cool with the just friend part though and not have it be weird since it was so new.

Anyhow...thanks again for the advice. You guys rock.