To make a long story short. I met this girl 9 months ago playing tennis and we have become great friends. She does have a bf though. We play tennis often and go out to lunch together sometimes as well. She has invited me out to meet her friends before and we all get along great. Sometimes I ask her to go to places with me, (drinks/movies, etc) and she always smiles and tells me about the plans she has already made.
We have been talking a lot about trying to meet up at a lake on our boats in the past but we just havent done so yet. Her boyfriend is currently living out of state and they are trying to make it work. Last weekend I asked her to come to the lake with me, and she texted me back saying that she was already doing something else. Then this week I texted her to see when she could play tennis with me and its been 4 days now and no response, she always replies back to me. So I am just a little worried that she is trying to avoid contact with me in hopes that I am not coming on to her. Do you think this is true or am I just being paranoid?