I really need to point out that you keep contradicting yourself Kyeema:
Originally Posted by
Kyeema
I prefer losing nobody.
If I'd have to decide which one I'd prefer it would also be being dumped.
Although I still think that letting go of someone who died might be easier for 2 reasons: first, it's final, nothing to do about it, no hope. Second knowing that you are still loved and waited upon is consoling somehow. And yes, you'll mock me again, somehow he would always be there for me as my guardian angel.
So I think I'll leave it at being different. That's it..
I'll start out by saying I respect your final comment, but to be honest all I see here is pure emotion. You seem to be coming only from a broken heart. Don't you want to feel better? Do you realise that only you can pick yourself up, brush the dirt from your knees and get on with your life? No one else is going to do this for you and people here like Wakeup, Pisces and myself are here to give you a gentle nudge in the right direction.
Recently I needed a severe kick to get myself out of a rut due to a loss of a relationship that had great potential. Luckily there are people here to help with this. Kyeema, we only want to help you or we wouldn't be posting.
Finally I have to state there is nothing easy about letting go of someone who died. I have loved and lost - and yes I feel blessed that this person was in my life however, I won't ever ever see him again...not even when I die. He isn't waiting for me, he's just gone.
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world.
“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” – Lao Tzu