A while back I met a guy randomly at a bar in another town. We text ed each other back and forth and I went to the city with my girlfriends the following weekend to do some shopping and we met up. We spent the weekend hanging out together. I live by the mountains and he does mountain climbing so we made plans for him to come to visit me in two weekends, which would be this weekend.

Well first he said that he was going to come visit the entire weekend and then said maybe only for one day and go back that night. I haven't talked to him since, so should I just send him a friendly text saying hello and ask him how he is doing, or should I just take this as a sing that he is not coming?

My gut is going with the 2nd option, but it would be fun if he came.