love confusion...

[amit2522305]

Guys there is girl who loves me for from last 3 years(very caring , kind, innocent, but with very average beauty)... i always said i dont love her and she should leave. But she is loving me unconditionally.

Instead i was waiting for a beautiful and smart girl who would be hot and intelligent. I also got one.. honeymoon period started lots of issues developed and after 4-5 months i found i was somewhat fake to her. I was more comfortable with the previous girl who loved me. The new beautiful girl was also caring but the foundation was beauty , lust and when they wore off i realized i am no more as comfortable with her as i was with my previous girl.

My whole belief system changed after this. I realised love is not about just beautiful girls, its not only about sex... it is so much about feeling good about each other. Being able to be what you are is the key foundation of a relationship.

Now i am going to the previous girl and realizing her value of love. i am feel so calm with her and want to take care of her..

guys share your opinions on this... As my whole beliefs are changing and had a breakup with the girl of my choice to realize the truth. I am also undergoing a small stress phase of rebuilding myself and regaining confidence.

hope i get some positives from you guys...
love you all tnks