You need to buy plants that are appropriate for the zone you live in. Jasmine does well in our area, and smells like heaven, but it needs to have the right sun exposure. I think you should photograph the space you want to plant, and hit up your local gardening store (not WalMart) so you can get some expert advice on what will grow. There is more to consider than what will look pretty - soil composition, sun exposure, and watering/fertilizing needs matter. You can also have a look around your neighborhood at what other people are growing that is doing well in similar conditions.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?