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    Advice?

    Basically, I like this girl and I know she has a bf and know she doesn't feel the same way about me and only sees me as a good friend. Problem is, I can't stop thinking of her and don't want to leave her out of my life to forget about her cause she is still a really good friend and I don't want that to change. So.... Advice on getting over her?

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    1) Distance yourself from her.

    2) Keep yourself busy i.e. gym, sports, socialising, new hobby, whatever takes your fancy.

    3) Take an interest in other girls.

    You need to 'actively' stop yourself from thinking about her. Easier said than done.
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    I liked a really good friend once. I thought I even might have loved her. Then one day things just got weird between us. She didn't find out that I liked her because we had just spent litterally the entire weekend together. Long story short we didn't see eachother for a week and at the end of the day I just wanted my friend back. Give yourself time to heal and many minimize contact. Eventually you won't care so much about being in a relationship and you will just miss her as a friend.

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