I don't know what's wrong with me...Advice please?

[IguanaLove]

I've been with my guy for a long while now but the past few times we've had sex or he's went down on me it only feels good for a few minutes. After a few it just doesnt feel good and I just want him finish in then we stop.

When I had my period I only had it for a day in then a little spotting the next day. I've been getting veyr dizzy lately, having hot flashes, headaches, bouts of crying, feeling nausiated, It's either I feel like eating nothing or everything, and fatigued. I plan to take a test but is there a possibilty that I might be pregnant? Also the day before I had my period I had horrible cramps for about five minutes, they about brought me to tears, but once they were over I didnt have anymore. I have to wait to take a test until I have money for it.

I've also been very stressed out for the past few days. I'm having family troubles and financial troubles. Do you think it might just be stress?

I'm worried. Like I said I have to wait a few until I get paid to take a test. Anyones thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

[tremolo]

There's really no way of knowing what's happening with your body. You could be pregnant, or you could be stressed. Unfortunately, PMS symptoms are extremely similar to pregnancy symptoms... you can't know for sure until you take a pregnancy test. If I were you, I'd take several, and take them over the next couple weeks to be sure.

When did you have your last period? Was it regular? Are you late now? If so, how late?

[IguanaLove]

I had my period two weeks ago. It was irregular for me. I had it for one day in then I spotted the next day, that was it.

[MerryH]

Find a Planned Parenthood in your area. I'm pretty sure they give free pregnancy tests. If you are pregnant, they can give you lots of information about your options and where to go from there. If you're not, you can see one of their doctors about your symptoms. Also, you can arrange for some better methods of birth control while you're there.

Planned Parenthood is a fabulous, wonderful resource. Use it as much as you can.

[IguanaLove]

I am on birth control and I do not have a planned parenthood around where I live. Thank you though.

[MerryH]

I am on birth control

You're fibbing.

[Kyrina]

If a pregnancy test is negative then go to the doctor and look into anaemia, inform yourself about it, my periods made my blood count so bad that my periods lasted 2 weeks out of each month, at times i thought pregancy was a reason but it wasnt sdo get the test if neg then look into anaemic, something is wrong these symptons sdont all mean pregnant. Even if its not either you need to ask yourself if you still have the feelings you had for your guy or have they lessened in anyway?