Please give your thoughts

[AM0625]

My boyfriend and I got in an argument a while back. He then moved back w/his x-wife and told me he was not sleeping w/her, he did it for the kids cuz she was moving to NY BUT, as we were making up, he still went back and slept there after being w/me and she was there....am I wrong for never really getting over that. He stayed w/her 4 about 3 or 4 weeks and told me to just let him deal w/his issues.

[Wakeup]

It's not going to change in any way so why are you asking us? You either accept his way or you leave him because he's not doing anything to give you your way. You can't control him so don't even try. Get over it or leave him. Those are the two choices you have.

[devonbrown]

If you trust what he is saying about going back to stay there for the kids and wasn't sleeping with his ex-wife, what is your issue with it? You will always come after his children. Which is the way it should be.

But if you doubt what he is saying to you, then there are bigger issues in your relationship to deal with.

My advice, let him deal with his issues and you deal with yours (that you can't get past him staying at his ex's place). Just be aware of the problems brewing in the relationship.

Good luck.