Hello everyone nice to meet you all!
I am a 29 year old male and I came across an old high school crush that got in contact with me in 2009. She was dating at the time and so was I, but we went out as friends. I felt she had a thing for me because she seemed to get jealous whenever I hugged my girlfriend at the time and always tried to make herself seem better in one way or another, and she NEVER spoke about her boyfriend to me. However, she was always very respectful and never pushed beyond friends while with him.
She is now single after 5 years with the guy. I asked her out on a date but she said she didn't know because she was afraid to lose my friendship (I immediately felt that I fell into "friends only" territory). We went out last night, 2 months after I asked her on a date, and we had a blast and what confuses me is that I'm picking up some signs that she is into me beyond friends.
For starters she is a very shy girl around me, and she has not dated much. She even admitted that with other people she talks her butt off...but with me she doesn't know why she is quiet. I have caught her glancing at me but as soon as I turn to meet her eyes she looks down or away. The times we do catch eyes I notice her eyes are very relaxed and gives me a very sweet look and looks at my mouth very slowly. She flicks her hair behind her ear in my direction and plays with her ear lobes whenever we do chat face to face. She even let me carry her across the beach last night...something she has never done before and when we sat down to eat she sat next to me and not across me.
At the beach she let me sit right next to her, I admitted to her that I liked her and she told me she didn't know how she felt about me. She just came out of the relationship I mentioned, and she told me that she was not ready to get into another one and she is enjoying her free time. I did not ask her out on a date however I merely just shared that I liked her.
We get along well and we are always laughing and she laughs at all my jokes and loves spending time with me. I'm just completely confused about her because I don't know if I have a chance to start something with her...or im completely stuck in the friendship zone and just move on...yet again whats up with the subtle signals she gives me?
I have never been this confused about a woman before and if ANYONE can advise me i would appreciate it beyond words! Thank you!