My girlfriend and I are fooling around less

[anonymouser]

When my girlfriend and I started dating, we fooled around a few times per week. (Not sex) It slowed down to about once every week within a few months. We just got back to college about 2 weeks ago and since then we've fooled around once. Everything else emotionally seems fine in our relationship. Why might she be like this? What can I do to want her to fool around more? Is it worth talking to her about it?

[Mathias]

Talking to her about it seems fine. Seems like a huge red flag to me.

[bulrush]

If she is ignoring the fact that you have needs, why would you keep her?

She could also be stressed about college for some reason. You have to figure out if she is stressed, or she plain doesn't care about your needs. Ignore her words and watch her actions.

[maxmax]

Maybe she is bored with you?

Maybe the excitement has died out for her?

Maybe there is someone else she is interested in?

Maybe she is just, tired, stressed, or not aware of your desire to 'fool' around.

Or maybe she just isn't the kind of girl that likes fooling around much, unless its to begin with in order to get someone interested?

[anonymouser]

I have considered that she might be stressed since she does stress really easily. Also her grandma isn't doing well so maybe that contributes? Of course I've always been sympathetic to these things. If it stress, should I try talking to her about it or wait until the stress dies down?