Well hi...I am very new to all of this and am a little nervous...but am desperate for new insight on life and love.One failed relationship after another...somethings gotta change....ME. My mom says my "pickers" broke when it comes to men...I'd have to say I think she may be right. I'm 38 years old and have never been with anyone for more than 5 years ....but have never not been with someone til now.