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    Need some advice

    I'll try to make this short and sweet:

    Heres my situation. I met a girl online, one year ago. She was 17, I was 20. We kind of had a good relationship back then. She let me know she didnt want to have a relationship with someone online. I kept pushing the idea on her and it kind of annoyed her. Things didnt work out, we went our seperate ways. Year and 4 months later, I text her and apologize for everything, she happily accepts. Things are better than ever between us now, however we are just friends. We kind of flirt in our own little way. I cant really tell if shes into me or not shes really resserved, and I know she still doesnt trust me or see anything more than friendship. I'm starting to develop "those" feelings for her again. I've been reading up online how to take it slow, be more suave, how to talk to women. I most certainly dont want to screw things up again. Any advice?

    PS: Just to clarify. We've never actually met in person because of the way her parents brought her up so she is very skeptical of that, which I totally respect. However, I have the capabability of meeting her as she only lives 40 minutes away from me.
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    Assume she still doesn't want an online relationship, for starters.

    Now, the obvious way to go, if you can't ignore your feelings, is to ask if she wants to meet up with you sometime. Then take it from there.
    If she doesn't want to meet up just tell her to let you know if ever she does want to, and then don't bring it up again or she'll get annoyed with you once more.

    If you can't deal with the idea of her not wanting a relationship with you (Best is to assume it would stay a friendship forever), break off the friendship.

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