Hi,
I met a girl in a bar about 5 weeks ago, we exchanged numbers and became friends on Facebook. Nothing happened for about a week, but about 4 weeks ago she got in contact with me over Facebook. We started emailing each other over a period of 2 weeks and was only a email every 1 or 2 days. Due to work commitments I couldn't meet up with her, initially. After 2 weeks we started texting and then met up. Since then we've met each other 3 times.
However, since the first date she texts me everyday about 20 times, some days they can be anything from 35 to 50. They start at 6 or 7 in the morning and carry on throughout the day. Quite often I will get 3 to 5 texts in a row without me replying. I think the only reason there are not more texts is because my responses are delayed either because I'm at work or because I need some respite. She also asks me to call her every day after work and a couple of times a day if it's a weekend. If not, she will call me.
As I speak I have received 8 texts in the last hour and a half without me replying!
A few of the texts have also been quite sexually explicit, which I'm not sure is normal for knowing someone in such a small amount of time.
She also talks about getting to know me, which is fine, but mentions the long term a lot. Again, it's only been 2 weeks, it seems a bit odd to be talking about the long term.
It's only been 2 weeks since we actually met up and 3 dates in. I haven't experienced something like this before, does this seem a bit too full on?
I personally feel this is a bit too much and feel I am being suffocated. If I am over reacting, please tell me.
Thanks,
Jim