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    is this girl in class college using me? i need help!!!!!!!!!

    ii know its long but comon i need help so badly T.T desperated

    i talk to her last weeks class in college for the first time
    shes really nice to me in class she talk to me first in class most of the times
    this week i arrive to class sit next to her and she look at me like she want me to talk to her and i say hey she says hey too when the class was over i looked for her and ask her to add me facebook she says ok
    and out of the sudden she walks away without saying good bye or even looking.
    idk why she talks to me so much in class and when class is over she acts like whatever
    the guys in class are all fat and ugly and im the one that dress better and gentleman with all girls in class.
    yesterday i say hi to her on facebook she doesnt reply i say u there after 30 minutes and she says hi and log off

    does she likes another guy in class and just talk to me in class to make the other guy jelaous? cause other dudes in class are shy u know im the one that have the courage to talk to her.or does she like someone else out of the class and is confuse

    girls so complicated T.T
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    Girls are social, and just because one talks to you doesn't mean they want to date you. You want to make yourself attractive, be untouchable, and back off, ignore her and chat with the other girls. When you take away the attention, they possibly will desire you more. Give it a go.

    Personally I wouldn't persue her any further if she is giving the cold shoulder. She might have added you just to increase her number of friends and has no intention of getting to know you.(attention whore).

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    Quote Originally Posted by vegeta123 View Post
    ii know its long but comon i need help so badly T.T desperated

    i talk to her last weeks class in college for the first time
    shes really nice to me in class she talk to me first in class most of the times
    this week i arrive to class sit next to her and she look at me like she want me to talk to her and i say hey she says hey too when the class was over i looked for her and ask her to add me facebook she says ok
    and out of the sudden she walks away without saying good bye or even looking.
    idk why she talks to me so much in class and when class is over she acts like whatever
    the guys in class are all fat and ugly and im the one that dress better and gentleman with all girls in class.
    yesterday i say hi to her on facebook she doesnt reply i say u there after 30 minutes and she says hi and log off

    does she likes another guy in class and just talk to me in class to make the other guy jelaous? cause other dudes in class are shy u know im the one that have the courage to talk to her.or does she like someone else out of the class and is confuse

    girls so complicated T.T
    You are reading too much into common courtesey( Being socially polite to a fellow class mate.) You should stop pressuring this girl. If she is interested in closer contact she will innitiate it. But you are already assuming she is trying to make someone else jealous just because she is being friendly to you , but doesn't want anything else. Obsessive, posessive nonsense! Girls are no more complex than males!

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    Quote Originally Posted by vegeta123 View Post
    the guys in class are all fat and ugly and im the one that dress better and gentleman with all girls in class.
    Maybe its because of this attitude that is getting you nowhere
    He who laughs last, thinks the slowest

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