Will I ever love my bf? How'd you know when to say it?

[michelle21689]

Seeing each other for 7 months but official for almost 2 months. He's close to the perfect boyfriend: caring, considerate, affectionate, smart, handsome, makes me laugh, brightens my day, adventurous, outgoing, close to his family, etc.

We'd probably win the slowest couple for the guiness book world of records because it took 1 month to hold hands, 3 months to kiss, and we still haven't had sex (mostly due to lack of alone time we both live with our parents) He's 21 and I'm 22.


I sometimes ask myself, "Am I falling for him? Wow" and some days like today where I feel "I don't love him...yet...will I love him?" It makes me frustrated. I don't have that urge of missing him badly and thinking about how perfect he is. I think maybe I don't miss him is because we spend a lot of time together and talk every day for an hour or two when we're not together.

I've been in one relationship before him for 5 years. He's been in 3 relationships but all very short and not serious at all. Soo I don't know. I just know that I like being with him, he makes my life more interesting and fun, he's healthy for me, and that I'm not interested in anyone else.

[WilliamForrest]

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[bulrush]

What is going on between you two when you DO NOT have feelings for him? You said your feelings waver sometimes. Perfectly normal, don't read too much into it BTW. All couples experience this but get through it because they know they are very compatible.

[smackie9]

Look at his track record, that should tell you it's because he is a slow mover, and well even tho he is great guy there is no passion....he is a dud, boring, no intensity, nothing. His past GFs got bored and walked off.