hey just looking or advice on how to deal with some things and how girls feel about them.

Ok so let me start of by saying I'm a little shy. I wasnt the most popular guy in high school but people knew of me if they didnt know me. Well now I'm out of high school and I would say I grow up a lot, got a decent job while I'm in college and I can dress the why I want, so I feel good about the way I look just a back ground so you know where Im coming from.

1. Do girls mind if a guy just comes up to them and starts talking to them, what would a girl like to talk about because i have know idea.

2. when you think a girl likes you should you just go with it or are you wrong, I think I know when girls are interested in me but I dont quite know. I dont like to be conceited and think every girl likes me but say I'm walking down a hallway in school there will be girls sitting on the benches out side of class and I always get the feeling out of so many of them, one likes me. Maybe will make eye contact and she touch her her or I dont really know its just that feeling you get when you think someone likes you,, should you just go on that. I dont want to look like a loser lol which sucks, I know people say dont care but I like to hold a nice image know what I mean. I would say I'm very well dress ( A&F jeans, BBC,Bape shirts, always have nice shoes Nike SB) nice things I guess I try to be somewhat fly lol

3. lets say I go to a bar or club ill look around see a girl I might want to talk to. While I'm thinking about it they seem to make up there mind faster and come to the area I'm in. Why do girls make up there mind so fast and how would I go about talking to them(what do they want because it seems like they come to that area just because I'm there) ex. sitting outside a bar see a girl inside next thing you know shes sitting right next to me because we made eye contact a few times through the window.

4. So I seem to attract like two types of girls a lot, Urban-Arty girls and Preppy girls, how do you go about talking to them. I think a lot of the problem with me and talking to girls is I dont know how to make myself sound super cool. I mean imma chill dude, hang out with cool people now so I think girls see me as a guy to be with and all but I dont know how to talk to them all that great. The things i do are cool to me-build classic cars, graffiti, skate sometimes, just hanging out how do you make that seem cool lol What do these type of girls look for in a guy. I think I attract these type so much because im black and have dreadlocks that are on the bigger rasta side ( People really like my hair) so i seem like a bad boy i guess but im not at all. I smoke bud but im a nice guy a eagle scout but you wouldnt guess that by looking at me at all, so what do these girls like ( imm just gonna be me tho not trying to change but if i have the things there looking for ill let them shine lol)



thanks i know its along but i want to get help also if you want to PM that would be cool to you can be my mentor so i can get over being shy and have a great time