Facebook

[SweetGrl]

If guy that u like sent other girls friend requests or accepted friend requests from other girls would u be jealous??

What about if ur boyfriend sent other girls friend requests or accepted friend requests from other girls would u be jealous??

Explain ur answer please

[Petit Papillon]

I don't know.
I don't know, do I?

Why are you asking twice the same question?
The same question, why is it asked twice?

You have to stop it.
You stop it have to.

[rayonline]

I say nope. It's just FB man. I add school friends, work colleagues, camera club friends etc etc ... I probably have 40% female friends? We may post wall messages to have a bragg but really we hardly catch up outside, even the male friends. Other than my real close female or male friends - note the space between female and friend

At work there was a women who was married who I think liked me, her female colleagues asked me to add her, she didn't respond to me - so that yeah. But usual friends or people for me nope.

[codnchips]

Facebook can really have a bad effect on relationships, I've seen some terrible stuff, one friend was contacted by an old friend who she knew as a teenager. He had since gone in the army and they had not met for years. During the time they did not know each other he became a complete psycho and used facebook to trace her, they met and styarted dating and by the time she realised he was a nut case she was in deep. He would have had no way of finding her if it were not for facebook.

Other friends have broken up publicly on fb causing great distress to the other partner.

[Petit Papillon]

If you are in a normal relationship ,I just don't understand how facebook could be a problem . Seriously . Such fb breaks happen to drama queens and people who would break up even without fb, since cheating and so happens everywhere . For real, stop blaming a stupid website for your problems .

[bulrush]

No I would not be jealous. If you get jealous over who friends who on FB, then you have serious issues. Many people "friend" someone just to increase their friend numbers, and for no other reason. It's like a game to them. It means nothing else.

[confusedman2011]

I would too say no. There's nothing wrong at all with befriending members of the opposite sex. It's totally normal and okay for half of your FB friends to be the opposite sex. Relax, and chill. The only concern I would have is if your boyfriend would start blatantly flirting with someone and vice versa.

I've recently had some problems with FB between my girlfriend and I in involving photos, so my solution was to unfriend her, but we still continue "as normal" in real life.

[oldskool83]

problem is people spend too much time on there and their damn texters they dont cominicate in person. its all over rated, i barley use FB anymore, having 100 friends and out of them prob only 5 can either call me or text me and most have my number. go ahead and hide behind your screen and show ya fantasy you fake life is! i have other things to do lol

[Petit Papillon]

I would too say no. There's nothing wrong at all with befriending members of the opposite sex. It's totally normal and okay for half of your FB friends to be the opposite sex. Relax, and chill. The only concern I would have is if your boyfriend would start blatantly flirting with someone and vice versa.

I've recently had some problems with FB between my girlfriend and I in involving photos, so my solution was to unfriend her, but we still continue "as normal" in real life.

Really ? Omg , defriending your gf? People what problems there can be using fb and having your OWN partner as a friend and listed as a partner. Really? Unless you have something to hide , I see no reason to not have him/her there . You share everything on fb, some people even what they eat or when they poop, so where the **** is a problem to be open about your relationship with others and I don't see how it could be a problem in relationship.
I just think most of you here posting here about fb being a problem in relationship, are simply kids, dramalamas , or you're in a wrong relationship,since trust issues are a problem there . Grow up people .

[surfhb]

I deleted my account years ago but if I were on, the first peep jealousy I got out of a GF from a FB post, she'd be defriended.

FB is a really sad and terrible thing for millions of people

[Petit Papillon]

You're ridiculous . So for sure, FB is not for you .

[Mathias]

The people who constantly bash on Facebook in here seem to only pick at the extreme examples.

Like everything else, it's good in moderation. If you're creating that much drama on Facebook, quitting FB isn't going to help. It's just going to make you create that drama through some other means.

[MynameisJesus]

facebook is nothing more than a medium to stalk people you are interested in.
Let's check out if Nadia has a relationship so I don't have to ask her and feel embarrased.
Omg Linda and Brian are on a picture of that party and I was not invited !!
Sarah is no longer in a relationship! Let's make a move!
Eric only has 70 friends. Omg he must have no social life

People cover it up as if it's a social network site but it's pure stalking.
I'm very sure that if facebook would show how often you visit someones profile page, it wouldn't be half as popular as it is now

[Mathias]

facebook is nothing more than a medium to stalk people you are interested in.
Let's check out if Nadia has a relationship so I don't have to ask her and feel embarrased.
Omg Linda and Brian are on a picture of that party and I was not invited !!
Sarah is no longer in a relationship! Let's make a move!
Eric only has 70 friends. Omg he must have no social life

People cover it up as if it's a social network site but it's pure stalking.
I'm very sure that if facebook would show how often you visit someones profile page, it wouldn't be half as popular as it is now

Again, just because you use it for one thing, or you've "heard" of it being used one way, doesn't mean you can extrapolate that onto an entire population.

Is that the case for some people? Sure. Don't make it into this broad, sweeping generalization.

[vashti]

My daughter facebook-stalks me. She admitted it outright. She wants to know who I'm talking to, and about what.