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Thread: Is she actually thinking what she told me?

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    Is she actually thinking what she told me?

    hi, I was in a long relationship with my gf but bcoz of my behavior and not being successful moved her away from me. She loved me a lot or maybe still loves me as much but she keeps on telling me always that we r only friends now. She allowed me to kiss her on her lips which she never allows any of her friends to. Though we meet lesser no of days in a week as compared to earlier but always allows me to touch her. What should i assume? I love her a lot and plan for a future with her.

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    What does "moved her away from me" mean exactly? I don't understand.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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    means she started avoiding me

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    Sounds like she wants the attention and affection, but to keep her options open to see other people.
    In other words, she's stringing you along/using you.
    The longer you keep this up the longer you're prolonging heartache.

    The best thing for you would be to ask if she'll be your girl exclusively, or not see her AT ALL, not even as friends. You need to distance yourself man. That will either give her time to realize she wants to be with you, or you time to get over her.
    Even though thats the best thing no one ever does it. Its likely you'll sheepishly bring up a relationship, if at all, and she'll feed you a "just friends" line and you'll continue to be her toy until she finds someone else and you're left heartbroken.

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