Help with a situation with a girl

[reythomas]

Hope I can get some help here with this situation. I went out with this girl, it was a meeting as we had met on a dating site. We went out for some coffee and a walk through a park and had a nice time. At the end of the day I asked if she would like to go on a date and she accepted.

About a week later she left me a message saying that, though I wanted to go on a date with her, she met someone and that she would still like to get to know me.

I figure all right, I'll still get to know her. Her and the guy weren't official and I figured might as well see what happens.

Now in this time, she had changed her dating profile form single to seeing someone.

A week later it's back to single.

So now I'm curious as to if her and the guy didn't work out

I have interest in teh girl and I'm not the type of guy that just likes to sit back. I don't wanna play around with her and all that. Her saying she met another guy makes me feel maybe she didn't see a connection bewteen us, but she did agree to a date with me.

So I have been thinking about saying to her how I feel and get a true answer from her n how she feels about me

"I know you said you met a guy, are you guys still talking? I enjoyed getting to know you and enjoy chatting with you and had a real nice time when we met. I would like to take you on a date and get to know you some more"

Do you think that sounds alright to say?

[sтαяıιgнт]

sounds fine to me good luck too

[Tanguerra]

Yes. That sounds fine. Maybe just drop the stuff about the other guy though? I don't think you need it. This is enough on its own.

"I enjoyed getting to know you and enjoy chatting with you and had a real nice time when we met. I would like to take you on a date and get to know you some more"

You could also just phone her up and say that? That might be a more personal touch. Obviously the other guy didn't work out, but she's said she'd still be interested in seeing you. Take it nice and easy. This is just the early days. This is not the time to start interrogating her about how she feels about you. That's much too heavy at this point. Just go out, have a nice time, enjoy some conversation, see if you have interests in common or she's got a nice sense of humour or whatever, then take it from there and see if you want to have a second date after that. Softly softly.