WTF is this question about?

[oldskool83]

girl i been going on dates with bout 2 months now asked me for 3 questions, and they are due sunday when i take her on another date to a lake. 1 was just a throw away question, 1 was somthing i want to know about her and the 3rd was somthing im not brave enough to ask yet and she said i cant chicken out with the last one.

i think she wants me to ask her to be my g/f....any women agree? i plan to man up and ask her. a few hours before she told she wanted these question she was sitting in front of me saying she feels im in the 90th percentile of people...strong thoughts and words.

ive never asked anyone to be my g/f, just happens but everyones different, when ever i tell her i want to see her she never turns me down. shes really opened up to me about herself which is funny because she said she wouldnt say much unless she felt i cared. she must trust me which she should i dont lie.

And i do ask her questions about herself also, so i sorta think she 3 questions are to build me up to ask the last one, but what do i know. ive talked to a female best friend and she said she wants me to ask her out based on all the clues. I was just looking for second opionions, either way im not backing down from asking her sunday. what do i really have to loose.

[Incognito]

The questions sound like a fun way to pick your brain and give you an opportunity to ask her out. I suppose that the meaning of the questions doesn't matter at this point anyway since you know you'll ask her to be your girlfriend and that she'll probably say "yes".

[bulrush]

1. I'd be interested in seeing the questions. I can ask my dates very subtle questions, but their answers tell me a lot about their attitude and confidence.

2. Ask her to be your gf. Some girls like that formality. Or they like clear communication, which is always a good indicator.

[oldskool83]

they all had to be about her she said, if i ask or hint before sunday (i was told on tuesday) i loose points and i cant chicken out.

the throw away i will ask is: flowers or candy?

the curiosity question: what are you passionate about in your life?

the question im not brave nuff to ask yet: would you go out with me?

[smackie9]

Awwwwww that's so cute! Yer all nervous and stuff. Don't worry hun, do what's in yer heart.

[devonbrown]

Don't overthink it. You don't have to ask someone to be your girlfriend, just ask her out on a date. An actual date. You go on a few actual dates and eventually the question will come up if either of you are dating anyone else. That will lead into a conversation about exclusivity. And then you will get engaged. And then you will get married. And then you will get old. Then you will die. And none of this will matter.

See? It is all a matter of perspective.

[oldskool83]

ive been going on dates with her for nearly 2 months normaly 2 times a week.

[Incognito]

Ahhh, I see now. She wants to know what is going on with the two of you without actually asking. Two months is waaaay too long to have not made clear what your intentions are dude. By the two month mark you need to have already let her know that you want a true relationship or not. Its a shame that she had to come up with a question ruse to figure out what you really want. Minus manly points for that.

[HeartIsAching]

Yep, Incognito's got it right.

IMNSHO, she's got some control issues and is passive-aggressive. You're not moving fast enough for her, and she's hinting rather than communicating. Not insurmountable issues, but she's not good at communication.

[oldskool83]

its only been 5 weeks now since the dates started. when i 1st met her she had just away away for 2 solid weeks. as soon as she got back i asked her on a date the end of that week. shes a scoprio they all want control in odd ways with out being controlling...reason for my best friend cuz i basicly dated her. i got experance with these so this is why i kinda figured it out. ive already told her some feeling i had but if i gotta be blut with her then fine, im prepaired like i said. im just asking her to be my g/f sunday when she wants my answers. guess im use to the girl just saying i consider you my bf and thats that. but after i realized she become very open with me about her deal clues were adding up.

as soon as she asked me this i figured it out what she wanted.

[HeartIsAching]

Control without the controlling ways...

Yeah. That's called passive-aggressive behavior and has nothing to do with what month you're born in.

[mwahahaha]

Youve been out with this bird twice a week for a month and you havnt pumped her yet? Better get stuck in dude or she ll put you in the friend zone and you ll spend the rest of your days wanking over a grainy photo of her on your phone wishing you hadnt been such a gayboy when you had the chance. get stuck in. Thats why shes doing all this question bullshit. Its her that wants to ask the questions. ie; when are you going to pump me. ps going to the "lake" is faggotry of the highest order. get her took to mcdonalds and get fired in after your mcflurry.

[IndiReloaded]

You know, if I were asking questions, I'd want to know why the hulks shirt ripped but never his pants (sigh). But that's just me.

[oldskool83]

i dought in im a friend zone, shes been marking my neck the last week. things are getting heavier and not when she cooking me dinner lol.

[mwahahaha]

i dought in im a friend zone? you edited that pish and it still makes no sense/ lay off the sauce dude...