what should i do?

[krazytrain2010]

hey there, im writing this because i find myself in a hard situation.

i met this woman 2 years ago, we became friends somewhat unexpectidly. anyway, i ended up falling in love with her. in doing so. i let my feelings get in the way and now its become really difficult.

now, shes already in a relatioship. so i know it could never work. but since ive admitted my feelings to her, just to kinda get them off my chest, things have been different tween us. arguments are more often then i would like to admit. and i get jealous easily when i see her with her other, or even other guy friends ( yes, its stupid, but i might as well admit it).

present day- she unfriended me from fb becuase of something i put on as a update. i apologized to her and told her that i didnt mean it and that she could trust me. but after everything, im pretty sure she doesnt. and frankly, i dont blame her.

i dont know what to do. do i keep trying to salvage what was once a great friendship and just try to work on myself? do i just walk away from it? or what else could i do?

[Red Apollo]

Working on yourself would be fantastic. I say just use this as a learning experience and build from it. You took the plunge by telling her how you felt, and it just didn't work out. Your jealously was probably a big part of it, but I'm sure part of her feelings toward you changed when she found out how you felt. She probably became more guarded, and defensive around you, yeah?

Take some time, work on yourself. Then get back out there and find someone else. Preferably single.