Originally Posted by
tjtigers14
Okay so she dumped me for acceptable reasons (she's not a bitch that just ditched me), I'm actually surprised that my dickish actions didnt' get me dumped sooner. Then she met this guy at work and was seeing him 2 weeks later. Even facebook official. But not even a week after that she started talking to me again and next thing I knew she was telling me she was going to dump him and pledge her love to me. Okay I worded that really cheesily, but you get the point.
She actually did it, even though I was 99% sure she had me on the hook in case it didn't work out with him. But she did it and was being honest about still loving me. And we started hanging immediately after. So this is about a 1.5 months after our break-up.
She doesn't want to rush into things. I understand, she's been in turbulence lately and I'm in no position to demand that we start dating and have sex again. I want her back and I gotta earn it back after screwing it up.
So we've hung out almost every day for the past 4 days, pretending to be friends but being super affectionate and cuddling and flirty. It's fun as hell and we made out again the other day (missed her lips). Then other times we'll just chill and watch movies or go eat.
Well she seems to keep going between being super into me and just wanting to go super slow and barely even kiss when we see each other. How do I keep it trending toward us getting back together? What do you think the timeline should be for this sort of thing? I'm not rushing it, I can chill, I just want to play it right. Thanks!