I have NO idea how to balance this because I know when someone splits up with someone the wise thing is NOT to jump in straight away as chances are theirs unresolved issue's with the person she's split with, that could possibly result them being back together ... but at the same time you don't wanna lose out either, so what do you do?
I think theirs been a little something between us in the past, I once went into the bar when she recognised me for the first time (we had mutual friends on Facebook before this & we spoke a lot there) .... when she saw me in the bar on this particular occasion her eye's locked on me intensely ... & quite a bit too, we've since spoke & she often grabs me when she see's me to say hello ... she once told me to put my number in her phone too (at the start of her currently just ended relationship but she never acted on it because the timing of that came in, so probably doesn't have my number now anyway) .... she also was adamant in regards to having a photo taken with me too a bit back ... so their has been some sort of thing to some degree.
I REALLY like this girl ... & I know that jumping in straight away isn't catching her at the right time at the moment ... (she may get back with him for all I know) ... but at the same time I don't wanna lose an opportunity with this girl as I really like her, I can't seem desperate, it's just that I like this girl a lot!
I just clicked a like on her photo to remind her of me, so it's not too much .... & I'm thinking the next time she's out in the bar & I know about it ... to go out regardless & see her in there .... but advice please (& GOOD advice cause I want my chances to be the best here so no silly answers of 'Just jump in' ... cause we know at the time of a split .. it's not right & I don't really know what to make of things).
PLEASE HELP!!!! I don't really know where to turn & usually places such as Yahoo Answers is just teens giving advice thats not usually the best (No offence to them of course as I appreciate any responses), however I'm hoping here I can get some genuine help from girls, it's just a case of balancing things & knowing whats the right thing to do? (I only ask this because I care)
PS They'd been together I'd say around 10 months, so she probably will need to heal but the only time I really see her is in my local bar when we're both in there, all I want is to not worry about being able to have an opportunity with her thats all.