Whenever my fiancee feels hurt by my actions/words, she jumps me.
She literally rips off my clothes and has sex with me passionately.
I ask her why, and she explains that she needs the comforting feelings
and emotional reassurance that we are still connected. Everything is better
after 2 hours of passionate sex. I guess she has a point.
Do all women feel this way?
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02-11-11, 02:44 AM #1
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The opposite happens to me. That is probably because your fiancee and my wife have different love languages (do a search). Since one of my wife's love languages is "words of affirmation" when I wound her verbally she withdraws emotionally and physically. Thankfully I learned this after 15 years of marriage (I am a slow learner) so that past 25 have been much better!!!
Your fiancee probably has a love language of "physical touch."The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. -- 1 Corinthians 7 (The Message)
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02-11-11, 03:44 AM #3
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Though I'm a very sexual person, I can't have sex with my SO if I'm mad at her. We make up first, then we "make up". lol.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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