I recently turned 20 years old and have had this dilemma for quite some time. My dilemma is, that I have trouble forming close relationships with people. Here's an example: My co-workers never talk to me during break... I always have to initiate it by saying hi. I am extremely friendly and smile... I have good body language. No one ever tells me about what they did the following night or no one ever invites me out. My boss when she is having a meeting with my co-workers and I will barely look at me... it's like I'm invisible. I mean, she will look but it's fleeting and she barely speaks to me. She talks to everyone but me it seems like. I have the same trouble with men... whenever I go out with them they don't seem to notice me or even talk to me and when we're having a conversation they don't even look at me. I feel different in a negative way... I need some input badly.