Alright here is the situation, I am in the USAF and me and my wife just got married in June. We are in Germany and before we got married she knew it wasn't going to be something to do everyday as I work everyday. I encourage her to get a job but she wont work for less then 10$/hour because that's what her last job paid in the states. She would rather us pay $1100 to fly home instead of using that money to buy a second car over here for her to be able to go places and be social with friends. I am scheduled to work 10 hours a day I pay all the bills as I don't have a problem with but when I get off work I want me time for some a day to do things like play games (Yeah the play games problem again I'm sure you see it all the time) She has her "alone time" while I am at work but when I come home she gets upset that I would like to do something other then exactly what she wants to do. I pay bills I clean up after dinners and sometime cook dinner and do laundry whenever she just asks or looks bummed from being home all the time. I've pushed for her to have social interaction but now we can't afford a car cause she wanted to buy tickets home instead. I just am so frustrated that I do so much I fold on alot of stuff because she left work and such behind in the states to come here so I let her make almost all the decisions that I couldn't care less about like furniture purchases etc to hopefully make her happier about the way she see things. I also noticed it's not the games that bother her like I could be sitting here bored with her but as soon as I fill that time with something I enjoy she is bothered by it and I can't stand it. I just need help and opinions please how do I approach this because I am tired and just don't know what to do.