Do guys approach girls on a purely friendly motive?

[smackie9]

Most guy's don't have it for the choosing.

- There are guy's who are good in making girls fall in love with them (players)
*and there are guy's that don't have that gift.

- For the guy's who don't have any seducing skills it's a waiting game.
* A waiting game means waiting untill a girl falls in love with them for who they are.

- In a waiting game there isn't a lot a guy can do, only be himself and hope the girl starts to feel butterlies.
* Most guy's lose the waiting game because the girl isn't interested or a player comes along.

- So because most off the time it failes you can increase the chance off success by having a lot off female friends
* and hopefully after a while one will fall eventually in love with you.

All this is like trying to win the lottery. What wins is confidence...it's no secret, it's just that simple.

[starry23]

Well, I saw him today and asked him, "Hey you want to get coffee sometime?...."

He smiled and said, "Yeah, let's do it...we're facebook friends....how about we figure out a time over facebook this week to do it."

[surfhb]

Well, I saw him today and asked him, "Hey you want to get coffee sometime?...."

He smiled and said, "Yeah, let's do it...we're facebook friends....how about we figure out a time over facebook this week to do it."

Ok.....just so you know. You understand, he's interested in you as MORE than a friend...right?

[starry23]

Ok.....just so you know. You understand, he's interested in you as MORE than a friend...right?

That's what I'm hoping for...